Pushing others to achieve their dreams!
For a period, he often said "I failed my life, I don't know how to snowboard".
So I answered him “You are 22 years old, and you think you have missed your life?! LOL”.
Then the opportunity arose to spend a day on the slopes with my cousins (good skiers): here he is on a snowboard as if he had always done it! 😮
For a period, I often said “I would like to play the cello, one day I will”.
So he said to me, “Do you want to play the cello? Do it! Get yourself a cello and a teacher! ".
I finally got some information and gave myself the means to achieve this dream, thanks to her little help.
♥ The pair
I find that it gives meaning to the couple to be able to encourage and motivate each other, to pull each other up.
The pretty paradox is that on the one hand, it strengthens the relationship as a couple, sharing, benevolence... And on the other hand, it allows personal development. Because I don't ski/snowboard with him, that's not my thing. And conversely, the cello adds an activity to me only, it's not something we share together.
I told you above about two little “ideal” experiences, but obviously everything is not always so rosy. We also have other activities and dreams that take time and have to be managed. Because we are two and we form a home! 🙂
♥ And you?
Has this ever happened to you? Did you realize a dream thanks to the encouragement of your spouse? Did you push your darling to make one of her dreams come true? Tell me your story in the comments.
And last questions: do you have a passion or a hobby that allows you to flourish, you personally? How do you find balance with your life as a couple? Tell me everything in the comments. 😉
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