ChérieDoudou! Anecdotes laughter reflections!

Shopping… The moment guys that I don't like is like shopping, you stay 10,000 years whereas in 30 minutes it's over if you're all alone.

Let me explain, we men go to the essentials, you see you take point bar! At a pinch if finances are limited you look at the price, you spot the cheapest item you take it you put it in your shopping cart and it's done.

With your Darling, she explores every department and every item in the supermarket! Check the composition, read the label up and down, it's true that it's for our good she doesn't want us to eat m… BUT can it take less time? I don’t know…

In any case, it makes me laugh when I watch all the men in the mall, we're all pushing the shopping carts and waiting and above all you mustn't be too much on your mobile because if your darling sees that she says to you: “does it piss you off to be here? You think it's a cakewalk for me!!! Next time you'll go shopping on your own, you'll understand."

And when you go there alone with the famous list and the pen (which falls out of your pocket in the corner of the seat in the car), you quickly go well done EXCEPT that on the way back, your Honey tells you that you don't have not taken the right reference or that you did not correctly choose the right melon or the right fruit tray...

The funniest thing when we go shopping together is the male solidarity that is expressed when we meet 1 colleague (without knowing each other we automatically become a colleague) in the same situation as us. We greet each other with a look of support which means: "Hold on, good guy, only 1 hour to go!" Be careful, don't look at your phone too much, you'll get screwed otherwise…”

Brief ! Yesterday I went shopping with my little wife!

Hey, how are you doing on your side? Tell us in the comments or by return email!

Jade and Thierry

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When we decided to live together, we chose to do 50/50 on all our projects. Our daily expenses from home (house loan, charges, shopping) our travels on major expenses (plane tickets, hotel), we even happen to do 50/50 on restaurants as well.

Personally, I'm keen on it (it's Doudou who speaks) because it really allows to bring parity if requested by the female sex and it also allows everyone to get involved through actions in the couple on all projects because that Like it or not, the main problem for the success of a project is essentially financial!

This has always been beneficial for our couple even if I do not hide from you that there have been several disputes and tensions on this subject throughout our relationship because on certain parts I put a little much more than my darling who did not realize when we were doing the accounts...

“Ah, you put all that money in the terrace? I too took part… when we take out the invoices (I keep everything!) she answers me: “indeed” or the famous sentence: “As soon as we talk about money it causes problems, I don’t care. crazy about money! »

It's true, money isn't everything, but it does contribute to it, so we have to talk about it without taboos because it's a delicate subject which unfortunately is dealt with in the event of separation... A notary told us that he advised all his customers to clearly distinguish the expenses of each because it was often a contentious issue when there was separation on who paid what...

Basically love is also dealing with issues that annoy very early in the relationship so that in the event of problems we do not go as far as separation... We find that it is beneficial because it concretely involves both people and nothing better than to see that your spouse wets the shirt and brings his part to the construction of their project, whether financially or otherwise. We often do not realize this difficulty but whether it is for the man or the woman, it is hard or even impossible for a single person to take all the responsibilities on their backs, one moment or another it will not be possible last because the weight will be too heavy to bear.

And what do you think about it? How is money management going in your relationship?

Jade and Thierry

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Guys, the phrase you shouldn't believe when your darling tells you that she's going to help you during the work!

It reminds me of our first move in, we had to repaint the whole apartment, there was a disgusting faded yellow, we decided to put everything in white!

I'm hot I'm preparing my gear, she too is even more motivated! She has planned everything, put on her old jogging and her faded t-shirt. She is ready, in her eyes you can feel the desire, the determination, the abnegation, the surpassing of oneself! She tells me that we are going to fold the case in half a day, limit she is used to it as a foreman, she explains to me the procedure to follow!

She asks me for the stepladder for the high parts because she is too small, I tell her that I would do these parts, she answers me: "No! do you think that I am not capable? "

I answer him that no I do not think but just that it will be more practical I measure 1.87m and she 1.64m....

She replies that she can do it, she takes the roller begins to paint a first sketch and says to me with sudden astonishment: "It's physical, I'm going to take a break..."

3h30 later... I find myself alone to finish the painting and she assists me on the sofa...

I love it my darling!!! She amazes me every day!

And you ? Do not hesitate to tell us in comments your anecdotes of couple when you start work at home! We can't wait to read you!

PS: We found a key ring to symbolize your 1st move, we let you discover it by clicking on the link => I DISCOVER

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Big philosophical discussion yesterday on what is true love!

We realized that true love is not at the beginning of our relationship, when everything is rosy, when we kiss all the time, when we send messages etc etc etc… but when we began to have real and serious problems in our personal life or as a couple!

Indeed, we discovered that to be in love is to realize that the person who is by our side is there for YOU in any situation in life and especially the hard times, a bit like real friends... it's not for nothing that we say that his Doudou or his Darling is his or her best friend, his ally, his shield etc etc.

We realized that we love each other because we share a common vision of life that allows us to put in place actions to live our happiness day after day.

We realized that love is living with a person who will not stop wanting to make you evolve and move you forward.

We realized that love is not denying difficulties but rather facing them and overcoming them (you will tell us that it is a classic phrase but it is truly realistic)

We realized that love is not the bubbly emotion of pleasure that stimulates you at the start of a relationship but rather that startling sensation that takes you inside when you realize that there is no has only THIS person who is made for you.

We often combine love with the emotion of a moment, we think that it is rather in the duration of the story that it is most represented! Building a relationship, a strong story for us is truly what is called LOVE!

Because unlike many other things, we choose to get together, to live an adventure together, to love (for us) is to assume this decision and go to the end of this relationship (the duration we do not know but we give everything to be able to make it evolve and make it grow, that it is solid and that everyone is for the other his real ROCK!)

And what do you think about it? What does love mean to you in a relationship?

Can't wait to read you!

Jade and Thierry

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I don't know about you guys, but when I drive with my Darling by my side it ends after 15 minutes of driving in... Argument!

You have your habits, you ride in your own way but when your Sweetheart is by your side, from the first turn you receive a comment, a judgment on your way of driving which is not good and correct for Her! Basically you take your driver's license every time...

So you take it upon yourself, once, twice and then it ends with a remark: "You can let me drive Damn!!!" Immediate response: Why are you talking to me like that, you don't have to tell me in this way ??? As a result, we get into a mess that puts us in a good mood!

It's worse when I drive his car! Even from a distance you have the impression of having your driving instructor on your back, limit you put your two hands on the steering wheel at 10:10!

To tell you, we finally established a rule (which is not respected by Madame) which is: "From now on everyone drives their car and no commentary."

This does not prevent him from commenting but at a lower frequency which makes it possible to appease the trips...

What do you think, tell me in the comments if you are going through the same thing? Do your women manage to trust you on the road? Girls you can testify too (be sincere, no female solidarity...)

By the way, we found a nice little keychain to offer to your Doudou or your Sweetheart => I discover!

Jade and Thierry

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The couple is an adventure, a road, a journey, we know where we want to go but we don't know what will happen.... It's weird but it's this mystery that makes the adventure interesting because on this road we evolve, we become a better person, we improve our way of seeing things, we discover ourselves, we learn even more to respect ourselves. We understand that our other half is a different person even if we have the same ideas and the same values.

Yesterday with my darling, we saw our evolution. After 11 years of living together, we have experienced difficult times but without these times our couple would not be as strong as it is today and above all we would not have seen life as it is and the future. with such optimism. M oi of cautious nature, I now dare to try, take risks and achieve my dreams and goals. She is more reserved, now dares to reach out to people, share, take a step back from criticism and judgement. We realize our possibilities, our strengths and we exploit them in order to have no regrets.

A life as a couple is a road, an adventure, the unknown, memories that allow us to grow individually every day thanks to our co-pilot. We don't know what tomorrow will bring but we are sure of one thing, we don't want to live our life by being a spectator and that's what motivates us, pushes us, pushes us, in order to live and fully enjoy each day. and every moment;

Jade and Thierry

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Girls you know this situation that can drive you crazy when you come home tired from work! You tidy up the house and all the mess that hangs around despite the tidying up done the day before. You say to yourself, come on, I'm still going to make him a nice meal, he's going to come from work tired, maybe upset, we're going to relax with some good food and a little drink!

Here we go, you put yourself behind the stove, with a little music it also feels good for yourself. You innovate, look for an original recipe to surprise him, you take time, doubt that it's good but you're just happy because you're sure it will make him happy when he arrives after struggling in traffic jams or in the metro .

That's when he arrives, says hello, undresses, tells you his shit from the office and asks you in a normal way as if it's obvious: What are we eating tonight? !

You say to yourself OK… you answer him and put the meal on the table, Monsieur slips into his chair, does not even wait for you and begins to straddle his first bite and chews to the fullest chain of bites!

You arrive, you start eating and you answer him: “Bon appétit Doudou and thank you anyway for this delicious meal! »

He replies in amazement: “Ah yes darling sorry but it's too good, I didn't have time to say thank you I was too hungry! »

Has this ever happened to you girls? Tell me in the comments if I'm the only one who has a guy like that!

Jade and Thierry

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After a long period of planning, of work, we couldn't take a serious vacation. Always busy settling financial, organizational or other concerns, we were constantly in a hurry realizing that it was not doing us any good...

As a result, tensions begin to rise, arguments over nothing important, the alarm bells begin to ring, WE NEED TO CUT!

Even to cut, you have to make an effort, it's crazy because everything must be organized according to everyone's availability according to the budget. We dug and took 1 week to finally find 10 minutes from home a night in a cottage with bungalows with private jacuzzi.

We took 1 night but what was it Good! Talking about other things, disconnecting from our projects, just saying nothing a few times and enjoying the bubbles that massage you with a glass of champagne or a disgusting wine who cares! The idea is to CUT!

As a result, the body and the mind relax, we appreciate each other again and we leave with a knowing smile towards our new challenges.

Life as a couple is an apprenticeship, we learned a lesson, no need to cut for a long time, just 1 night is enough to reconnect with the other!

Don't hesitate to tell us what you think!

Jade and Thierry

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Do you guys know that phrase?

What a pleasure when you go back under the duvet after having finished watching TV, you realize how lucky you are, you take stock of your life. You say to yourself I'm still lucky, I have a job, I have a place to sleep and above all a wonderful woman by my side who accompanies you in your galleys your dreams your projects.

You watch her sleep, you think she's beautiful even with her bonnet on her head! A desire then rushes to get closer to her, to warm you up and to warm her up, you want to show her this gratitude for being by your side. You approach slowly because you don't want to wake her up...

You stick to her then you put your hand delicately on her thigh… Just at this moment when your 5 knuckles, not rather the end of your 5 knuckles land on her skin. You don't have time to appreciate its sweetness when your hand flies into the air with this magnificent sentence that sends you back to your place on the bed:

“No Doudou not tonight, besides YOUR HAND IS COLD! »

Jade and Thierry

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♥ Him

For a period, he often said "I failed my life, I don't know how to snowboard".

So I answered him “You are 22 years old, and you think you have missed your life?! LOL”.

Then the opportunity arose to spend a day on the slopes with my cousins ​​(good skiers): here he is on a snowboard as if he had always done it! 😮

♥ She

For a period, I often said “I would like to play the cello, one day I will”.

So he said to me, “Do you want to play the cello? Do it! Get yourself a cello and a teacher! ".

I finally got some information and gave myself the means to achieve this dream, thanks to her little help.

♥ The pair

I find that it gives meaning to the couple to be able to encourage and motivate each other, to pull each other up.

The pretty paradox is that on the one hand, it strengthens the relationship as a couple, sharing, benevolence... And on the other hand, it allows personal development. Because I don't ski/snowboard with him, that's not my thing. And conversely, the cello adds an activity to me only, it's not something we share together.

I told you above about two little “ideal” experiences, but obviously everything is not always so rosy. We also have other activities and dreams that take time and have to be managed. Because we are two and we form a home! 🙂

♥ And you?

Has this ever happened to you? Did you realize a dream thanks to the encouragement of your spouse? Did you push your darling to make one of her dreams come true? Tell me your story in the comments.

And last questions: do you have a passion or a hobby that allows you to flourish, you personally? How do you find balance with your life as a couple? Tell me everything in the comments. 😉

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"A couple that lasts"

Anecdote guys!

Last night, my darling tells me about her day, the shit at work etc... I feel she's stressed her appointment didn't go as agreed...

I listen to her, I agree with everything she says to me EXCEPT that for a moment I make the mistake of answering "Yes" by biting my tongue... Nothing bad, I have a pimple that bothers me ...

Monumental error!

I take a blower with: "You don't give a damn about what I tell you! Why are you biting your tongue?"

I answer: "Well because I have a pimple that bothers me Honey !"

I have a dazzling return: "Myto! You don't give a damn! You never listen to me"

I don't brague, I reassure her by telling her word for word what she said to me then I take her in my arms hoping that we calm down but I have as a final word: "Leave me alone! "

Do you recognize yourself, the darlings ?

Jade and Thierry

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With us, the Kinder Country go quickly. We eat them 2 by 2 and without realizing it, the box is already empty. But there, I had left one at the bottom of the drawer for him. A few days later, I still see it in the drawer. I hand him the Kinder Country, telling him that I left it for him. He answers me :

No, I left it to you!

If it's not cool. 🙂 So we shared it.

But since life as a couple is not easy, you would have seen us a little later in the evening shouting at each other (literally…) because baby still not sleeping, fatigue, misunderstanding, and that's enough for us get up in the towers (as fast as you put on the Kinder Country 🙂).

We take a few minutes each on our own (like the time to put the little one to bed or brush our teeth), we let the pressure drop, and we apologize to try to end the evening in a more serene atmosphere. In general, in these cases, there is one who asks for forgiveness, and the other who answers:

No, it's me who asks your forgiveness...